Hey man, I usually don't have the best words for things like sadness. In a personal perspective I have been through some low lows in my life, moving away from places that don't serve you and/or drain your energy is a really good start. Close friends are even better. I know we only chat every so often but I am around if you want to vent or just shoot the shit and not have to think of the sad stuff. Hopefully you get to where you need to be sooner than later mentally. Take it easy man.
VoicesByCorey
I'm sad you're not coming to Boise, GoodL! However, if it's because you're going to Seattle to try and get out of the Big Sad, I'm happy for you man.
These funks that we tend to find ourselves in are always a pain in the ass. Life likes to hit us at the worst time and keep pounding us into oblivion. One of the best things I've done to combat that, in my eyes, is to focus on any positive. Even if the positive is something small and insignificant, focusing on the positive, instead of the negative, will always feel better and keep you in brighter spirits. I know it's a very optimistic approach, and can be hard to maintain at times, but having that mindset is healthier then letting the negatives weigh you down, you know? Focusing on one positive thing daily, even if it's a youtube video of guy getting kicked in the nuts, will be more beneficial then letting the negatives dictate your day. Kinda my two cents to fight the Big Sad :)
I hope your new adventure in Seattle is very beneficial GoodL. We all deserve happiness my friend, I hope you find it there! Whenever you're in Boise, YOU BETTER HIT ME UP DAMMIT! :D
GoodL
Ayy I appreciate the encouragement and the support. I guess in a sense I'm hesitant to even try to be optimistic in the face of negativity because I worry that being let down will be worse then, if that makes sense. But I do think you're right in a way too, because obviously just moping ain't doin me much good.
Thanks for the well-wishes and I'll get a chance to catch up with you irl eventually, I swear on me mum's.